Badgers, Find Your Balance

Badgers, Find your balance

Its the start of another school year and after nine months, I’m officially back on campus at UW-Madison. Needless to say, the school work-load will be a bit of adjustment after spending four months abroad, but I’m excited for all that the semester will bring.

Apart from diving right back into school, I’m also jumping back into writing—this time for The Daily Cardinal, a school newspaper on campus that I have been involved in for the last two years. In the past, I have only done social media work for the Cardinal, so I am excited to take on writing for them this year.

My first piece focuses on the stressors that the first few weeks of college bring and how finding balance between school and extracurriculars can be difficult, but is not impossible. You can also find the original article published on the Daily Cardinal’s website here.


Badgers, Find Your Balance

September brings the start of a new school year and a clean slate for every student—the chance for reinvention.

As a freshman, the first year away at college can be overwhelming. After your parents leave you on move-in day, you’re on your own. No is one there to make decisions for you, instead, it’s all on you. House Fellows may encourage you to engage with the students on your floor and attend the Student Organization Fair, while professors point you towards the library. Ultimately, however, whether or not you participate in any of these activities is entirely up to you.

On the other hand, as a returning student, the new school year brings change and opportunity. The chance to try a new club or take on the leadership role you weren’t qualified for the year before. If another school year has passed you by without achieving your goals—now is the time to tackle what didn’t fit into your schedule before.

Whether you are a freshman or a returner, you attend countless welcome meetings, sit through various orientations and attend try-outs. Within the first few weeks of September, you’ve tried just about everything, switched classes multiple times and are running on an average of five and a half hours of sleep per night. Time to reevaluate your commitments and make some big decisions.

It’s easy to forget the real reason every student is on campus—to earn a degree and eventually graduate. Balancing school with extracurricular commitments and seeing your friends every once in awhile is like a puzzle. All the pieces will fall into place eventually, but it may take some time and hard work to get there.

In the first few weeks of school, it is important to take a step back and see the bigger picture. College is about doing what makes you happy. If juggling two jobs, a student org, intramurals and school is stressing you out, determine what you don’t need and let it go. There is always next semester to pick it up again.

So say yes to something new, but don’t be afraid to turn people and opportunities down if something doesn’t feel right. Most importantly, amid all the madness that is college, make time for yourself. Find the gap in your schedule for a quick nap or a trip to the gym. Take a night to hang out with your friends. You’ll be quick to find that you aren’t the only one feeling overloaded.

College is overwhelming, especially when everything is thrown at you at the start of September. Finding balance can be difficult, but is not impossible. It’s all about the choices you make.

How to Ace Your First Week of College

How to Ace Your First Week of College

Tomorrow is the first day of classes here at UW-Madison. In honor of the first day of school, I have accumulated a list of tips for making it through your first week without stressing and freaking out too much.

  1. Walk your classes before the first day: Being that I go to a school that has such a large campus, this is particularly important for me. While I may have had classes in one building before, walking my classes before school starts in order to find the exact room I will be in is crucial (umm…the Humanities building anyone?) This will also help you avoid the cliche of ending up in the wrong class and awkwardly having to sneak out (unsuccessfully of course). Even if your school has a small classes I really suggest walking your classes before the first day!
  2. Stay organized: Whether this means color coding your folders and notebooks for each class, writing out your schedule for the week including deadlines in your new planner, or simply just glancing at your class schedule the night before, just do what you need to do in order to be prepared.
  3. Don’t freak out: As simple of a tip as it may sound, it is one of the most difficult ones. You will most likely feel overwhelmed and the natural response is to freak out. Just don’t do it. You will get through it and figure things out!
  4. Don’t sit in the last row of class: It may be tempting. You can text, go on your computer–really do anything but pay attention to the lecture while sitting in the back. While you don’t have to sit in the front row either, find a place you feel comfortable sitting that will encourage you to pay attention in class. You’ll be thankful you did when midterms and finals come around.
  5. Be early: Especially on the first day, it is important to be early to class. This will allow you time to find your class if you get lost, pick the best seat in the lecture hall, and organize your things before the hall begins to fill up.
  6. Set multiple alarms: This goes back to being early, you can never be too early and setting multiple alarms can help this. You might press snooze on your first one so setting multiple will be your catch all. Besides, your mom or dad is not there anymore to wake you up and make sure you get going on time.
  7. Be outgoing and say hello: Don’t be that person. Don’t be the person that doesn’t look up, who doesn’t smile or say hello, or who gives the death glare. Just don’t be that person.
  8. Use your resources: You might still be figuring things out, even if you are a sophomore, junior, or senior! Don’t be afraid to reach out for help from your RA, school counselor, or even just another student. That is what they are there for and usually will be more than willing to help you out.
  9. Don’t be afraid to call home. Sometimes the only thing that can calm you down or help you out of any situation involves a call home and hearing the sound of your mom or dad’s voice.
  10. Most importantly, DON’T FORGET TO HAVE FUN! It’s easy to get overwhelmed your first week, but you have all year for that. Have some fun during syllabus week.

Dorm Decorating!

 

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I moved into my dorm last week at UW-Madison. Because I recently got a job as a desk services worker for the residence halls, I moved in two weeks earlier than most people on campus. While this meant that the majority of people on campus were the house follows, desk  employees, and athletes, it also meant that I was the only person moving into my dorm that day and could take my time moving things in.

Prior to moving in, I had of course spent weeks pinning ways to organize my room, different craft decorations I could make, and various ways to display my photos. Needless to say, I was VERY excited to start decorating my room!

The first thing I put up was the DIY Photo Frame I made a few weeks ago. You can find out how to make one yourself in this blog post: https://mostlymotto.wordpress.com/2016/08/15/diy-photo-frame/ .

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With me, I had brought a bunch of painted canvases that I had done over the past year. There were two distinct groups of them, so they were divided up and hung with their like group. The first collection of canvases were UW-Madison themed. I hung these up over my desk and finished off the area by hanging my Badger flag over them. I’m really happy with how this area turned out!


The other collection of canvases were a bit softer as they featured similar light purple, green, and blue colors. The majority of these canvases had quotes and went together quite well. These I centered over my tv and eight cube organizer. I thought that this helped to give this media area a more relaxed vibe. Plus I just really like how they all go together.

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Before moving in, I had printed a bunch of photos from the past year and summer out at Walmart. I decided to display them in a simple way above my futon and chair, under my lofted bed. I used sticky tack (one of my favorite things for hanging things up, it’s great!) to fasten the photos to the wall. I thought this was a simple, yet organized way to display these photos.

I also hung up my Ed Sheeran flag and Badger pennant on the wall between my desk and “kitchen area.” To complete my room, I hung up some lights above my bed and strung some beneath as well. The star lights that are above my bed are from IKEA and can be found here: http://www.ikea.com/us/en/catalog/products/10252484/ . They were a must find for me when I went through the IKEA in Seattle with my family. The string fairy lights were from Amazon and I had used them last year in my dorm room as well.

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After the first night in my room, I discovered that the blinds provided in the room did not do a decent job of blocking out the sunlight. The next time I came home, I picked up some blackout curtains at my local Meijer. They are turquoise/blue and match with the color scheme of my room perfectly. Their addition has helped with the light issue in my room.

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Overall, I’m really happy with how my room has come along so far. I still have another string of lights I might add, but other than that, I think it is pretty much done and feels pretty homey to me! Let me know what you think or how you are planning on decorating your room!

My College Packing List

MY College Packing List

Prior to leaving for college last year, I remember constantly scrolling through Pinterest pinning every single college packing list I could find. Many of these lists had overlapping items and some hand pointless items that were totally unnecessary to bring to college.

After going through these lists for a few weeks, I combined and edited a bunch of lists and accumulated my own. This list was critical to my packing. While I may have brought a few other things that are not included on it, it encompasses most of the major things that I brought. Be sure to talk with your roommate(s) about what you are planning on bringing so you do not overlap items!

I have already started to pack for this coming school year and am utilizing my list again. I’m sharing it with you in the hopes that you will find it useful as you begin to pack this year. It may also save you some time and keep you from searching through every list you can find on Pinterest.

Let me know in the comments if you think there is anything important missing from my list or anything you saw that you had not thought of before that is on it!

Oh, and good luck packing!

My College Packing List

Bed

  • Twin X-Long Sheets (Two Sets)
  • Blankets
  • Duvet Cover
  • Duvet Insert
  • Mattress Pad
  • Pillow Cases
  • Pillows
  • Body Pillow
  • Throw Pillows
  • Mattress Protector

Bathroom

  • Body Towels
  • Hand Towel
  • Washcloths
  • Towel Wrap/Bathrobe
  • Curling Iron
  • Hair Straightener
  • Hair Dryer
  • Shower Caddy
  • Shower Shoes
  • Hair Brush
  • Comb
  • Lotion
  • Conditioner
  • Shampoo
  • Other Hair Products
  • Hair Spray
  • Nail Clippers
  • Q-Tips
  • Razor
  • Shaving Cream
  • Soap
  • Sunscreen
  • Toothbrush
  • Toothpaste
  • Tweezers
  • Scale

Desk

  • Tape
  • Stapler
  • Staples
  • Calendar/Planner
  • Desk Lamp
  • Envelopes
  • Stamps
  • Paper Clips
  • Pencil Sharpener
  • Post Its
  • Rubber Bands
  • Scissors
  • Alarm Clock
  • Dry Erase Board
  • Calculator
  • Highlighters
  • Note Cards
  • Sharpie Markers

Electronics

  • Laptop
  • Headphones x2
  • HDMI Cable
  • Ethernet Cable
  • Printer
  • Ink
  • Printer Paper
  • Surge Protectors
  • USB/Flash Drive
  • DVDs/Movies
  • Extension Cords
  • iPod Speakers
  • TV and Remote
  • Phone Charger
  • Computer Cord
  • Camera
  • Power Strip
  • DVD Player
  • JamBox

Dorm Room Necessities

  • Book Light
  • Futon
  • Kleenex
  • Mini Ottoman With Storage
  • Vacuum
  • All-Purpose Cleaner
  • Wipes
  • Steamer
  • Hand Sanitizer
  • Broom
  • Lint Roll/Brush
  • Area Rug
  • Floor Lamp
  • Air Freshner Spray

Decorating

  • Posters
  • Pictures
  • Lights
  • Picture Frames
  • Decorative Pillows
  • Adhesive Hooks

Toiletries

  • Clearisel
  • Face Pads
  • Neosporin
  • Band-Aids
  • Face Wash
  • Deodorant
  • First Aid Kit
  • Aleve/Aspirin
  • Cold Medicine
  • Gas Medicine
  • Cough Medicine
  • Thermometer
  • Vitamins
  • Makeup
  • Makeup Remover
  • Perfume
  • Bobby Pins
  • Hair Ties
  • Headbands
  • Feminine Products
  • Nail Polish
  • Nail Polish Remover
  • Cotton Balls
  • Floss
  • Wipes

Food

  • Plates/Bowls/Cups
  • Can Opener
  • Pizza Cutter
  • Silverware
  • Paper Towels
  • Tupperware
  • Granola Bars
  • Peanut Butter and Jelly
  • Bread
  • Popcorn
  • Chip Clips
  • Dish Soap
  • Dish Brush/Sponge
  • Dish Towel
  • Microwave
  • Water Pitcher
  • Filters for Pitcher
  • Ziploc Bags
  • Water Bottles
  • Water

School Supplies

  • 4 Folders
  • 4 Binders
  • 4 Notebooks
  • Loose Leaf
  • Pens
  • Pencils
  • Sharpies
  • Highlighters
  • Backpack
  • 4 Notebooks
  • Pencil Case
  • Eraser
  • Calculator
  • Laptop Sleeve
  • Textbooks

Laundry

  • Hangers
  • Fabric Softner
  • Hamper
  • Dryer Sheets
  • Stain Remover
  • Tide Pods

Organization

  • Under Bed Storage
  • Stacking Drawers
  • Shoe Storage
  • Closet Organizer
  • Duffle Bag
  • Waste Basket
  • Desk Organizer
  • Over the Door Organizer

Random

  • Batteries
  • Duct Tape
  • Fan
  • Safety Pins
  • Sewing Kit
  • Umbrella
  • Soccer Stuff
  • Scooter
  • Board Games
    • Cards
    • Catchphrase
  • Lanyard

Clothes

  • Hoodies
  • Jackets
  • Jeans
  • Rain Boot
  • Pants
  • Shorts
  • Skirts
  • Snow Boots
  • Sweaters
  • Sweatpants
  • Swimsuit
  • T-Shirts
  • Winter Wear
  • Shoes
  • Workout Clothes
  • Pajamas
  • Belts
  • Dresses
  • Gloves
  • Hat
  • Underwear
  • Socks
  • Coats
  • Scarves
  • Jewelry
  • Purse/Wallet
  • Sunglasses

MUST HAVES

  • Drivers License
  • Debit Card
  • Credit Card
  • Medical Insurance Card
  • Financial Aid Info
  • Bank Info
  • Checks
  • Student ID
  • Social Security Card

Here is a document version of my checklist if you want to print it out and use it or edit it!

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Don’t Forget These 10 Items When Packing for College

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It’s about that time to start planning your list for heading off to college. These can be long lists and while searching for futons and microwaves you may forget the little things that are most definitely some of the most important items that should be on your list.

Here are 10 things that you should add to your list of things to pack if they aren’t already there:

  1. Paper Towel: There will be spills. Just bring it. Please.
  2. Command Strips: Of all types and sizes. Hanging your things up allows you so much more space in your small room. Make sure you have both heavy duty strips for heavier objects coats and backpacks and lighter strips for hanging up accessories like hats and necklaces.
  3. Kleenex. Srsly though. You’d be amazed at all the people who don’t have kleenex in their rooms, especially when the floor plague comes around (it’s a real thing, and beware of it). Using toilet paper is NOT FUN. Just bring a starter box at least!
  4. Vitamins and Emergen-C: like I said, the floor plague is real. Be ready to combat it early with vitamins and Emergen-C.EmergenC_OriginalFormula_Tropical_cupAndPacket_mini.jpg
  5. Tide Pods: the best thing that you can do for yourself to help get through doing your own laundry. They make it so easy. Throw one in for a light load and two for a heavy or particularly dirty load. Bam. You’re done.
  6. A scissors: they come in handy and you might be the only one around on your floor with a pair of them. You’ll be famous.
  7. A vacuum. Either a handheld or a small stand-up vacuum is a must have in college. If you are living in the dorms, you’re front desk will most likely have one. In my experience though, these vacuums are not well maintained and usually do not work. Having your own will make cleaning so much easier and quicker. Trust me!
  8. Hanging Wall Lights: If you are sharing a room with a roommate these are a must have! Not only do they serve as a pretty decoration, but they are the perfect lights to leave on for your roommate when you decide to go to bed early and they are out late. Instead of leaving all the lights on, leave these on instead, they give off just enough light for your roommate to come in and get ready for bed without waking you up. Here is a cheap option from Target: http://www.target.com/p/room-essentials-14-17-x-9-45-x-22-44-inch-winter-white-string-lights/-/A-23980561
  9. Mini Storage Ottoman: You can find these at Target or Bed Bath and Beyond and let me tell you they are SUPER HANDY. They serve as storage, a table, a foot rest, or extra seating. I used mine almost daily last year and it is where I kept my extra blankets for when friends came to stay overnight.ottoman.jpg My choice is this ottoman for $14.44 from Target: http://www.target.com/p/microsuede-ottoman-room-essentials/-/A-51004606#sn-51004606
  10. Dish Soap and a Sponge: this is actually really important. Don’t forget it! I was amazed by some of my friends who didn’t have any of their own and rarely cleaned their dishes. Don’t let this be you. Be cleanly. (I prefer a Dobie Pad: https://www.amazon.com/Scotch-Brite-Dobie-

 

Do you think I’m missing something really important? Or has one of these items come in handy for you in the past? Let me know in the comments below.

Graduation Gifts: Bucky Edition

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It’s high school grad party season which means good times with family and friends, free food, and yes, graduation gifts. The typical gift for a high school graduate heading off to college is a card with money enclosed. While this is the most commonly gifted item, it can get quite expensive to attend these graduation parties—especially when you’re a poor college student attending these parties without your parents. So instead, I have an alternative gift that can still be beneficial to the high school grad and much more heartfelt for those on a budget.

Two of my friends both graduated from high school this year and are headed off to the great UW-Madison, the school I currently call home. As freshman, they both will be living in the dorms this year and that means that they will be in need of some wall art to decorate their closet sized humble abodes that they will call home for the next year. A cute canvas with the school mascot, the famous Bucky Badger, serves as the perfect first piece to place on the cinder block walls of their dorm room. This is also a relatively inexpensive gift that will stand out on the gift table of the next grad party you attend.

To do so, you need a little artistic talent, a canvas, some paint, a paint brush, and possibly a computer and printer if you don’t think you can free-hand paint the outline of the mascot.

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I began with printing out an outline of Bucky Badger and cutting it so that I could trace it onto my canvas. I had to re-size my photo of Bucky a few times in order to get it to be the size I wanted on my canvas. Next, I traced Bucky in pencil onto my canvas. I then painted over the pencil with black paint. I continued to free-hand the inside details of bucky. When I finished with that I decided the canvas looked a bit bare. What better phrase to add to it than “If you want to be a badger, just come along with me,” for my future Badger ladies.

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This gift could easily be switched up for any high school graduate depending upon the university he or she is attending. Whether it is a Golden Eagle, a panther, a titan, or Bucky, the university mascot canvas gift is the perfect fun, meaningful high school graduation gift when attending summer graduation parties on a budget!

I’ve Missed You Old Friend

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Since returning home from college, I’ve thought a lot about the things that I missed most while I was away. 9 long months away some from of my favorite things. How I managed, I’m not quite sure. I guess it’s true when people say “you never know what you’ve got til’ it’s gone.” Okay, maybe that is a little extreme for the things I’m talking about. These things I’ve missed aren’t actually gone gone-I just wasn’t able to see and use them for 9 months. 9 LONG MONTHS.

Here’s a list of my most missed things, in no particular order of course:

  1. Sophie. Who is Sophie you might ask? Why my lovely golden retriever pup. I haven’t been in contact with a dog since the last time I saw her during Spring Break, I would never cheat on her with another dog!
  2. My bathroom. Community bathrooms in dorms aren’t really thatttt bad. Who am I kidding, they’re actually quite awful. Especially when there are cockroach infestations and long hair coating the shower walls on the daily. I’ve never been happier to come back to my own bathroom.
  3. My bed. It’s not a joke, dorm beds are not comfortable whatsoever. Even with the three inches of foam I brought along with me in an attempt to mask the rock solid surface I would be sleeping on, it still does not match the comfort of my own bed.
  4. My kitchen. More specifically my oven and electric mixer. I love baking and while I attempted to continue to bake at school, hauling all of my supplies down to the SINGLE kitchen that services all 1,200 residents of Sellery Residence Hall was not worth the work.
  5. My car. While even if I had it with me in Madison, it would rarely be used, I missed it dearly. The luxury of hopping in the car to drive over to the grocery store instead of walking, (I know its only a block away currently), is dearly missed.
  6. DVR. Its exhausting trying to keep up with all the shows I watch when there is no DVR. While it is fun to live tweet along with Scandal, I still enjoy watching shows on my own time and fast forwarding through all those commercials.
  7. The parental units. I’ll admit it, sometimes all you really need is a hug from your mom and a good joke from your dad to brighten your day.
  8. My water. The water from my house is notorious for being the best. I don’t know why, but it really does taste better than any other water I’ve ever had. Don’t knock it til’ you try it.
  9. My piano. The ability to randomly sit down and play a song whenever I want has never been missed more.
  10. My in house tech dude. Okay, you got me, I meant Tyler.

Anyways, let me know some of the things that you missed, or would miss most if you were away from home for 9 months in the comments below.